October 2nd is the International Day of Non-Violence. Swap one phrase for a day →

What have we stopped noticing?

The things we say, do, and accept without thinking twice.

Why “Tofu & Potatoes”? →

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“Herding cats”

Leading a team, renamed as crowd control.

Conscious swap“Getting the band together”

Would you swap it, or keep it?

Look closer where it comes from, what it assumes, and the case for keeping it
What you mean by it

Describes something extremely difficult to organize, coordinate, or control.

What it's actually picturing

The job is described as wrangling: the speaker is not deciding where to go, only keeping animals moving in roughly one direction.

What it takes for granted

That this work is coordination rather than leadership. Getting people who disagree to move together is the harder half of the job, and the phrase files it as a chore.

Worth knowing

The work it describes is documented as unevenly handed out: women are asked to take on tasks with low promotability more often, and accept them more often. The phrase is usually said by the person doing that work, which is one way a job talks itself down.

The case for keeping it

It is usually self-deprecating and affectionate, and it credits a genuinely hard job: whoever says it is admitting the group is not moving on its own.

Say it plainly
Coordinating everyoneGetting everyone alignedManaging a difficult group
Or have some fun
Getting the band together
◆ Our reading. Yours may differ.
Where this comes from

What else do you hear all the time?